What's the easiest way to tell a girl(s) that you only want them as a friend when their entirely obsessed with you? I want personal experiences in here guys!! - oh also if they turn all stalkerish has anyone ever had to get a restraining order?

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no i havent had that problem but if it gets really bad i would have to say a restraining order is the way to go.

talk to them and treat themas a friend and no more, dont dangle a carrot, if she makes advances on you say you value her too much as a friend or some bollox or that you arent looking for a relationship right now. if poush comes to shove tell her that you hate her! she'll almost ceratinly leave you alone then, restraining orderseems a bit ott, she probably doesnt even realsise she practically stalking you!

however, simplest solution is just to run awaaaaaaaaaaay!

slap them for being an idiot....then get a restraining order....

yea that sounds good.(sarcasticly) if you slap her then put a restraining order on her shell tell the restrainer people that you slapped her.then you get it up the ass in jail. are the british jails full of gay guys too? someone answer me then get back on topic

The answer to your question is monkeys on crack.

Now, to get back on topic: but before I do, I must say I have no experience with this type of thing. just Be honest with her and tell her hows you feel, how in the hell is she supposed to know you don't particularly like her in that way. Unless she is the type that would kidnap you and make you love her after hearing something like that...then the restraining order sounds REAL good.

tell her you have SARS

if that doesnt work, then i dont know what will

nah tell her you have persistant sexual arousment syndrome and you blow your load so much you can't get it up......then she'll find someone else to harass

All good ideas!! theres more than 1 though and their scaring me:S

Its mainly text messages but like when i'm out and about I have seen them following me? usually I would just shrug it off but 2 in particular send me like 40+ messages a day :angry:

ok restraining order it is

Be prepaired for her not wanting to talk with you for an while.. Or it just being plain ackward to be around. I myself would just tell her straight up. How you do this is up to you though. It maybe best to do it some place public, like an coffee shop, or in an park as you walk. That way, it kept civil(Her or you for some reason just start yellinng at eachother).
I went througth some thing simiual just recently, and it ended up with me and the woman being alot more closer interms of friendship and so forth. I think I lucked out my self, cause she not the type that spazes when you tell her the truth. She expects it, as I expect it.
Either way best of luck.

I don't want to end up being friends with her. I want rid! she is mad! :blink: I also don't want to be seen in public with her.... shes just a stupid bitch that has developed obsession with me...

<span style='colorurple'>Well is there any possible way you can avoid her at all costs??? How has she become obsessed exactly? ( meaning... when did you have the oppertunity to talk to her or to get to know her in order for her to be obsessed?)</span>

change your phone number! thatll get rid of the texts! of let her overhear about all your sexual diseases or summat! *nod nod wink wink*

<!--QuoteBegin-andy+Jan 22 2004, 04:32 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (andy @ Jan 22 2004, 04:32 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I don't want to end up being friends with her. I want rid! she is mad! :blink: I also don't want to be seen in public with her.... shes just a stupid bitch that has developed obsession with me... [/quote]
I was half asleep when I read sorry.
Well, it simple then. Just get an restraining order, they do wonders trust me on this. They're the coolest. you can still techincally stalk someone, it just has to bee from 100 yards using binoculoars*sp*. errr.. forget I typed that.

Hmmm, if you don't want to be friends with this psycho, then be insulting, be an asshole, find out what she hates in a person and be that to the extreme! or you could always pay me to "take care" of this for you. hehe
*loads BFG2k*

<!--QuoteBegin-PinkElafants1669+Jan 22 2004, 02:06 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (PinkElafants1669 @ Jan 22 2004, 02:06 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <span style='colorurple'>Well is there any possible way you can avoid her at all costs??? How has she become obsessed exactly? ( meaning... when did you have the oppertunity to talk to her or to get to know her in order for her to be obsessed?)</span> [/quote]
I'm a radio presenter meaning i'm in the public eye.. and shes a stupid bitch

Llamadragon2.0 : How much

randomly say things like that and she'll surley be put off, though you'll be branded as a nerd for awhile.

<!--QuoteBegin-NaTaKu+Jan 23 2004, 12:42 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (NaTaKu @ Jan 23 2004, 12:42 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> randomly say things like that and she'll surley be put off, though you'll be branded as a nerd for awhile. [/quote]
I Can Live with that

if your on the radio. start talkin about the crazy bitch on the air and hope that shes listening.

<!--QuoteBegin-matt+Jan 23 2004, 11:24 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (matt @ Jan 23 2004, 11:24 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> if your on the radio. start talkin about the crazy bitch on the air and hope that shes listening. [/quote]
I like my job it enables me to eat!

...ok that was random....can you have aphone in or the evqivalent???? Cos that's be cool and talk about it suttley....[COLOR=blue][COLOR=blue][COLOR=blue]

just tell her to get lost, ya lucky ya dont live near me, cause i'd get rid of her

... SHOOT HER!

lol, jk.

um... yeah, restraining order. Or just do quirky shit to make here like... fear for her life of you. lol

Holy Christ -- I havent read any other posts, but thats the story of my life. This girl I was dating, Amanda, got really obsessed with me and when we broke up she like went into withdrawl, eventhough we were still friends and stuff....It's been like a year and we mess around a bit but we are just friends still, but now theres this other girl that I'm trying to hook up with who really likes me, but Amanda keep freaking out because she wants me all to her self. I seriously wish I could get a restraining order sometimes...